We want you to have the best possible experience on Coffee Meets Bagel, so here are a few important online dating safety tips.
While we work to prevent fraudulent or inappropriate accounts, no system is perfect. Please use caution and prioritize your safety when interacting with others.
Protect Your Finances
Never send money, gift cards, cryptocurrency, or financial account information to someone you meet on CMB — especially if you haven’t met them in person.
Never share information that could be used to access your financial accounts.
If another user asks you for money or financial assistance, report them immediately.
Protect Your Personal Information
Keep your exact workplace and home address private until you’ve met in person and built trust.
If you are a parent, limit the information you share about your children in your profile and early conversations.
Avoid sharing details such as children’s names, school information, schedules, or other identifying information.
Watch for Red Flags
Be cautious of members who:
Claim to be from your country but say they are “stuck” abroad and need financial help
Avoid meeting in person or refuse phone/video calls
Push for a serious relationship very quickly
Avoid answering basic questions
Ask you to move conversations off-platform immediately
If something feels off, trust your instincts.
Meeting in Person
When meeting a match for the first time:
Tell a friend or family member where you’re going
Meet in a public place (like a coffee shop or restaurant)
Arrange your own transportation
Avoid excessive alcohol consumption
Leave immediately if you feel uncomfortable
If you are in immediate danger, contact local emergency services.
Report & Block
If you’re being harassed, threatened, or believe someone is attempting to scam you:
Block them
Stop communication
We review reports and may take action, including suspension or permanent removal.
Learn More
For additional safety, privacy, and scam prevention information like local support resources - please visit our Safety Policy page and tips for spotting a scammer.